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September 13, 2012 D?j?

I think that relationships plays a huge part in life. I hope that this post will somehow do some good in those areas.

I got to know D?j? when she was my son?s girlfriend. My son helped her raise her little girl Rachael for a few years. D?j? always d said that my son was the best thing that ever happened to Rachael.

A relationship that is based on drugs, alcohol and a gross disregard for that which is right will never last. Several years ago D?j? and my son went their separate ways. D?j? had many other boyfriends and had two more children and one died before he was 1 year old of infant death syndrome and another one a month for being born.

I would see D?j? from time to time and she would call or bring Rachael by to see us. I e was called Tata by D?j? and Rachael. They would come every year for Halloween and trick or treat.

D?j? was in several rehabs programs but never seem to get her life in order I went to see Deja when she was in rehab for the second or third time. I told the Rehab Director that D?j? seemed so much better but he told me that she was boy crazy and that would be a struggle. D?j? was always looking for a man to fill the emptiness she had.

Her lifestyle kept causing all kinds of trouble and s her fairer is raising her children her boy/friend husband is in prison.

Below is a reprint of D?j? last words on Facebook less than 24 hours ago. The second reprint is Deja?s mother?s post.

September13, 2012

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Deja Nash
HAVEN'T BEEN DOING SO WELL FOR A WHILE NOW AND I FEEL I CAN'T GO ON.. SO IF PLAINS GO THRO EVERYTHING GOES TO MY MOM ANNETTE WHITE AND SHE'LL KNOW WAT TO DO WITH MY THINGZ. MOM I LOVE U NEVER FORGET THAT...AND PATRICK AND ALL OF MY GIRLZ ARE MY LIFE SO SORRY BUT I CAN'T MAKE IT WITHOUT U GUYZ... TAMMY IN SORRY IM NOT THE PERSON U WANT ME TO BE...
? ? 23 hours ago via mobile

Annette Roman White
Hi everyone.. I have Bad news. My only child "Deja Jones" died last night around 12:30am. She was 28 years old, Beautiful, and the mother of 4 beautiful children... Rachel, Mia, Kayden and Chaysen. I love her sooo very much and my heart hurts for her so much. Deja joined her 2 son's Kayden & Chaysen, and her nana Genice in Heaven. She left behind her mother & father Annette & Ruben, Her 2 daughter's Rachel & Mia. Aunts, uncles and cousins from both sides of the family and some very close family members, Please Keep us all in your prayers please!!!

This is very disheartening and depressing as I remember D?j? as a bubbly teenage girl with all her dreams. Yes she was boy crazy but that is not bad.

I cannot imagine what it is like to have your 28 year old child so depressed with life that she commits suicide.

I realize more now how precious life is and how someone?s bad choices in life does not take away from the fact that this girl was a perky, warm, and dreamy girl that wanted love and human relations to fill her heart.

It is beyond sad that a young life was so tormented that it chose death at age 28.

I hope that something good comes out of this, maybe someone can learn something but at the moment I cannot think of anything.

Life can result in such deep despair. I do not like to be a downer but thought that positing this may help me or someone else. I can?t image how but they say talking about such things can give some relief.

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